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Thrive with Kira Sabin: A Positive Psychology Podcast

Thrive with Kira Sabin: A Positive Psychology Podcast

Hosted by: Kira Sabin

Ever had that moment where you look around your life—your career, your relationships, your daily routine—and think, Wait… is this it? Is this all there is? You’re not alone. Midlife has a way of sneaking up on you...

Episodes

Why Dating for Potential Makes You An Asshole

Confession time...did you know I am a recovering fixer? Yup.  It used to be a major problem. But not only did it not get me to the relationship I wanted, it ultimately made me an asshole. Let me break down for you why...
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Are you choosing love or fear?

Hey there Hot Pantses! Today I am talking about one of my favorite topics when it comes to dating and relationships.  Making decisions out of love or fear. So many things we say in the name of love are not actually...
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The Truth About Settling

Oh Hot Pants... I am channeling some Pat Benatar today and am All Fired UP! Let's talk about this scary word "settling" and what it REALLY means.   Trust me, I have some big thoughts that are going to change the way...
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What is your goal in love?

If you are single, you have a job to do.  Maybe you didn't know that...but I am here to tell you the truth! Your job, as I break it down on the podcast today, is to know understand what your true goal is in love. Is...
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The REAL Problem with Ghosting

GHOSTING!!!! I pretty much think it is the bane of our existence in dating.   Dramatic, maybe.  Untrue?  Nope. Ghosting is pretty much crap for lots of reasons...I wrote the article about that here. But today I break...
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How Travel Changed My Love Life

We have apologies, announcements, haikus, jedi mind tricks, everything all over this episode. But if there is one thing it is....it is real. Because it is my goal to start doing more podcasts and just sharing my...
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We Are All About 5 Seconds From Bat Shit Crazy

I have been known to buy a ticket on the crazy train once or twice:) Listen up as I breakdown the difference about truths vs stories in our heads and how they can affect our new relationships.   Oh, and I share a...
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What Happens When Shit Gets Real In A Relationship

Shit just got real. I think when we are dating and all things seem lovely and everyone is on their best behavior, we forget about the shit. The bad days. The rough times. The days we are just not fucking winning at...
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Why You Should Stop Looking For Love

No, I am not trying to be a super downer.   I am a life coach for God’s sake.  I think we know I am am mostly rainbows, unicorns with a side of sugar cookies.  The good kind. With sprinkles. But we are not fucking...
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Want Love? Give Yourself A Fucking Break!

Why are all so fucking hard on ourselves?  Seriously, that shit is killing us! Today, I breakdown why that feeling not only sucks but is pretty much the biggest (love) sabotage ever. I also give you three ways to...
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Stop Waiting For Someone To Complete You!

Seriously....stop doing that shit. Today I am going to break down the two reasons people have relationships and which one is killing you (Hint: it's the "complete me" reason)...cause I am good like that.
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Are You Making People Feel Special?

Bringing it down for a minute today... Listen up as I share my very first theory about love and it just might change your life.  Seriously!  Would I lie to you? Your adventure for today:  Journal the shit out of these...
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