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Why I Used To Be Funnier...
Oh witty banter. I used to be hooked on it like a drug. But at one point, I realized that my snark was hurting, not helping me create healthy relationships. Listen to my story today on how why I used to be funnier and...
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What to do when you behave badly
Last night I was a shit show. There was whining, crying, a mild temper tantrum and so much more. In my former life, I would have lost my shit and feared that it was too much. That I had fucked it up. That it was...
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Give Up Your Plan B
It's happens to the best of us. Even if we are out there trying, dating, mating all of the things, a lot of the time we keep a plan b. Someone on the other end of the computer/phone who will text us when we are...
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Put Down Your Fucking Phone!
I am celebrating my two year anniversary soon and as a recovering fixer and super independent, this is a big deal for me. But there was a moment in the beginning that I know can see was a turning point for me. If I...
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Why Dating for Potential Makes You An Asshole
Confession time...did you know I am a recovering fixer? Yup. It used to be a major problem. But not only did it not get me to the relationship I wanted, it ultimately made me an asshole. Let me break down for you why...
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Are you choosing love or fear?
Hey there Hot Pantses! Today I am talking about one of my favorite topics when it comes to dating and relationships. Making decisions out of love or fear. So many things we say in the name of love are not actually...
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The Truth About Settling
Oh Hot Pants... I am channeling some Pat Benatar today and am All Fired UP! Let's talk about this scary word "settling" and what it REALLY means. Trust me, I have some big thoughts that are going to change the way...
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What is your goal in love?
If you are single, you have a job to do. Maybe you didn't know that...but I am here to tell you the truth! Your job, as I break it down on the podcast today, is to know understand what your true goal is in love. Is...
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The REAL Problem with Ghosting
GHOSTING!!!! I pretty much think it is the bane of our existence in dating. Dramatic, maybe. Untrue? Nope. Ghosting is pretty much crap for lots of reasons...I wrote the article about that here. But today I break...
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How Travel Changed My Love Life
We have apologies, announcements, haikus, jedi mind tricks, everything all over this episode. But if there is one thing it is....it is real. Because it is my goal to start doing more podcasts and just sharing my...
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We Are All About 5 Seconds From Bat Shit Crazy
I have been known to buy a ticket on the crazy train once or twice:) Listen up as I breakdown the difference about truths vs stories in our heads and how they can affect our new relationships. Oh, and I share a...
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What Happens When Shit Gets Real In A Relationship
Shit just got real. I think when we are dating and all things seem lovely and everyone is on their best behavior, we forget about the shit. The bad days. The rough times. The days we are just not fucking winning at...
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